In any loving relationship, a fight or disagreement can occur. If someone calls the police to diffuse the situation, the person making the call might be surprised to learn that the officers arrive on a mission to arrest someone. In fact, in many of these cases the officers will actually say: “One of you is going to jail.” The officers are trained to make an arrest if any allegation of domestic violence is made, even if the alleged victim does not wish to prosecute.

In some cases, officers threaten to arrest both people involved in the argument, which often increases the chances of a false or exaggerated allegation. To make matters more difficult, the officers must also determine which person was the primary aggressor and which person might have a self-defense claim.

The District Attorney’s Office in San Francisco has a special unit focused on prosecuting domestic violence cases. Prosecutors will often prosecute the case aggressively even when the alleged victim is reluctant to participate in the prosecution. Any complaining witness that wants to recant the allegation might be threatened with charges for filing a false police report or perjury.

False allegations in domestic violence cases are common, particularly when one side has a financial incentive to lie or exaggerate. Also, when a couple is separating, concerns about a divorce or child custody battle can lead to false allegations made in an effort to gain an upper hand in the civil case.